In my experience discussing my fears with my husband has at times lead to arguing esp. It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. Well the pieces will all fall into place. Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. Having said this, there are several aspects of this particular religion that you need to be aware of as these will greatly affect how she will approach you and the relationship as a whole. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday. I'm not marrying to be a single, working mom with money. It's gonna end regardless not trying to be a dick, but that is what is going to happen eventuallyso be smart and cut your losses before it gets harder.
I just pray that we can make it through the next 3 years. Joint Accredited with multiple accreditations, including:. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship.
If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. Thank you so much, L. I think patience and understanding is also important. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. God will help you both work this out. You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual.
But I also know that He loves us so much that He would never take away our ability to choose for ourselves. And if he loves you as much as you love him. Finally, it is a very tight-knit community and despite efforts to insulate you from conversion-minded missionaries, you will be exposed to a lot of people that think, like this woman does, that atheists are without a moral compass. I will keep reading, but it looks like most of the stuff about racism and polygamy has been "adequately" explained away by updates to LDS. It started making me feel very nervous and apprehensive at the thought of having a family, and having all of his time be consumed by his work. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. I have way more free time than he does. I know a Doctor who drug his wife and 2 children across the US to begin his residency.