After all, what does making love look like as opposed to just fucking you? Possibly you just met someone, and you are unsure whether he is only in it for the sex or if he is actually making love to you and genuinely cares about you. These signs will help you figure out whether your man is using you for sex or making love to you. Some signs of him being nervous or scared include he is shy, he is awkward - more than he would normally exhibit outside of the bedroom, and he is quiet. He is not confident and is not outwardly proud of anything bedroom-related. He could be nervous or scared for a number of reasons. He may be nervous about what you think of him or him not living up to what he thinks you expect.

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Top definition. Making Love unknown. Sexual intercourse between to people who love each other. Practiced by same sex couples or different sex couples. I was lying on our couch, the one we picked out when we first moved in. Flipping through the channels on the television. After all, spending the day at the gym had to have it's rewards didn't it? I flipped to a reality TV contest and suddenly he was behind me, running his fingers through my hair. He scooped me up in his arms and began to kiss my lips slowly. My body was pressed against me.
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The Signs That Tell It’s Love-Making
Cohen Ph. Psychology Today. Unfortunately, this common use or misuse can mask the important distinction between these two activities. This is not to proclaim the moral , or prudential, superiority of making love.
Making love is way more intentional and present in my opinion while fucking is more about getting them off and getting off yourself. I guess it can. Seems basically like a performance with soft music as the soundtrack and candles and low light being the stage setting.